take the testWhat is it gonna be?

In every marriage there is an unwritten contract that goes something like this, "you be there for me, I'll be there for you." But what if one of you isn't living up to his or her end of the deal, what if it is you?

  1. During the day, I call, text, email, my spouse….
    never rarely once or twice often all day
  2. I prepare special meals, or activities that I know my spouse likes…
    never   once or
    twice a year       		once a
    month       		once a
    week       		every day
  3. I make a point of being cheerful, encouraging or complimentary to my spouse…
    never rarely sometimes often all day, every day
  4.  I pick on my spouse…
    never rarely sometimes often all day, every day
  5.  I listen to my spouse's problems and offer empathy, sympathy and understanding…
    never rarely sometimes often all day, every day
  6.  I physically help out with the other person's life, I organize their things and keep their toiletries and personal items well stocked.
    never rarely sometimes often all day, every day
  7.  I take care of my spouse when they are ill…
    never rarely sometimes often always
  8.  I compliment my spouse's looks, intelligence, talent, fashion sense…
    never rarely sometimes often all day, every day
  9. I make a point of being punctual for dinner, appointments, I remember and honor all commitments with each other…
    I always forget I need reminders from my spouse I forget alot more than not always
  10. I give small presents for no particular reason…
    never rarely sometimes often always